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game night

game night

Mon, Jul 13·7:00 PM CDT

Duffy's Tavern and Grille

420 W Diversey Pkwy, Chicago, IL 60614, USA

join us for game night every Monday at Duffy's! must rsvp on pie at link below for entry. we've got a curated collection of fun easy-to-learn games that allow you to make friends over friendly competition coming solo? we've got you covered! we'll set you up with games and fun players to enjoy the night with. see you there!

arguing with strangers
sold out

arguing with strangers

Tue, Jul 14·7:00 PM CDT

The Scout Waterhouse + Kitchen

1419 N Wells St, Chicago, IL 60610, USA

arguing with strangers sold out for june, this is the July date arguing with strangers is half debate club, half open mic, and 100% real talk. we start things easy. get paired with a stranger, get handed a side, and argue something ridiculous. like is a hot dog a sandwich? defend it with everything you've got and practice disagreeing with a laugh. then the best matchups go up front. the crowd picks a winner on who's more fun to watch, not who's right. once everyone's loose, the topics get real and you argue what you actually believe. the stuff you don't usually say out loud to a stranger. what you'd never compromise on. maybe what you've even changed your mind about. things may get serious, but they stay civil. And at the end of the night, you walk away knowing you can completely disagree with someone and still walk out respecting a new friend. we forgot how to do that. this is practice.

last call lectures: mystery of the female orgasm

last call lectures: mystery of the female orgasm

Wed, Jul 15·7:00 PM CDT

Epiphany Center for the Arts

201 S Ashland Ave, Chicago, IL 60607, USA

the female orgasm gets talked about everywhere and understood almost nowhere. it shows up in movies, magazines, and group chats, but the actual science stays surprisingly murky. so this month we are bringing in an expert, a vulva puppet, and a room full of curious people to finally dig into it. why does the "orgasm gap" exist? what is actually happening in the body and brain? and how much of it is physical versus everything we were never taught? leading the night is dr. rachel zar, a phd in clinical sexology and aasect-certified sex therapist who has spent years at northwestern medicine's center for sexual medicine helping people understand their own bodies. she brings real research and zero judgment to one of the most asked about and least explained topics out there. here is how the night runs. dr. zar gives a 45 minute talk, no interruptions, just settle in and listen. then we break into small guided groups for 60 minutes of real conversation about what landed, what surprised you, and what you always wondered but never asked. we close with a dedicated q and a, so hold your questions until the end and bring your best ones. come curious. leave knowing more than you did walking in.

singles, sun, and salsa

singles, sun, and salsa

Thu, Jul 16·6:30 PM CDT

Whispers on Oak Street Beach

Oak Street Beach, 1000 N Lake Shore Dr, Chicago, IL 60611, USA

salsa as the sun goes down, right on the sand at whispers on oak street beach. we start with a beginner friendly lesson, then it's open dancing with music, drinks, and good company. this one is built for meeting someone new. we sell equal men's and women's tickets so the dance floor stays balanced all night. heads up: this event is geared toward straight singles looking to meet the opposite sex. 6:30 to 9pm at whispers on oak street beach. bring comfy shoes and an open mind.

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

Sat, Jul 18·9:00 AM CDT

North Avenue Beach

North Avenue Beach, Illinois 60614, USA

where to find us: https://mcusercontent.com/27ac5737ddd52bab0caaaf9cc/images/0dedf8da-6657-51ab-8131-a32bcf43bd4a.png weather permitting sun, sand, good people, and a grill going. what more do you need? we take over the north courts at north avenue beach every saturday morning for pickup volleyball, food, and a whole lot of fun. show up whenever. courts are marked by skill level so you can jump in wherever feels right. 2s and 4s. rotate in, meet someone new, grab a plate, repeat. best way to make new friends is buy bringing food, drinks, and games to share with people (no pressure though we bring a lot of stuff)

sunset walk + watch party

sunset walk + watch party

Sun, Jul 19·7:30 PM CDT

Adler Planetarium Skyline Walk

517 E Solidarity Dr, Chicago, IL 60605, USA

we’re teaming up with Chicago Girls Who Walk and Chicago Gents Who Stroll for a sunset walk + watch party at chicago’s best sunset spot ☀️ bring a blanket, a camera, and be ready to make new friends. we’ll bring friendship bracelets and bubbles (because let’s be real, sometimes you just don’t know what to do with your hands) and the ultimate lake party playlist 🕺🏻 don’t do summer alone! keep an eye out here for exact walking route info!

game night: speed friending

game night: speed friending

Mon, Jul 20·6:00 PM CDT

Duffy's Tavern and Grille

420 W Diversey Pkwy, Chicago, IL 60614, USA

looking for your game night crew? this is the place to start. we're kicking the night off with a low-pressure icebreaker. from there, you’ll rotate through a selection of easy-to-learn, fun-to-play party games, playing two different games with two different groups to keep things social, active, and engaging. then open play begins, and the night transitions into our classic game night experience. mix, match, and play whatever you’d like from our curated collection of approachable games designed to spark friendly competition and conversation. whether you’re new to board games or just new to chicago, this night is built for meeting new people and making friends. check-in begins at 6:00 pm, speed friending starts at 6:30 pm. open play kicks off at 7:30. see you there 🎲

game night - 7:30 start time

game night - 7:30 start time

Mon, Jul 20·7:30 PM CDT

Duffy's Tavern and Grille

420 W Diversey Pkwy, Chicago, IL 60614, USA

join us for game night every Monday at Duffy's! must rsvp at link below. we've got a curated collection of fun easy-to-learn games that allow you to make friends over friendly competition coming solo? we've got you covered! we'll set you up with games and fun players to enjoy the night with. see you there! this game night follows our speed friending game night! mix and match with new people before our usual open play game night begins. check out speed friending in our event feed for more details.

last call lectures: medical mysteries: true stories from the neurology ward

last call lectures: medical mysteries: true stories from the neurology ward

Tue, Jul 21·7:00 PM CDT

The Scout Waterhouse + Kitchen

1419 N Wells St, Chicago, IL 60610, USA

last call lectures presents: medical mysteries: true stories from the neurology ward the brain is the strangest organ we have, and when it breaks, it breaks in ways that sound made up. patients who can't recognize faces. people convinced a limb isn't theirs. memories that rewrite themselves in real time. this month, ignacio keller sarmiento pulls back the curtain on the neurology ward and the real cases that left even the doctors stunned. ignacio works at the intersection of medicine and the deeply human stories behind each diagnosis. expect true cases, the detective work of figuring out what's actually happening inside someone's head, and what these mysteries reveal about how all of our brains work. expect a 45 minute talk, then small group discussion, then open q&a. come solo, leave with new people and a new appreciation for the three pounds of tissue running your whole life.

salsa before sunset

salsa before sunset

Thu, Jul 23·6:30 PM CDT

Castaways Beach Club

1603 N Jean Baptiste Pointe du Sable Lake Shore Dr, Chicago, IL 60611, USA

salsa, the beach, and the best skyline view in the city. 21+ we're taking over castaways on north avenue beach for a night of salsa dancing right as the sun dips behind the city. the night opens with a beginner-friendly lesson, so whether you're a seasoned dancer or you've never moved to a beat in your life, you'll be on the floor in no time. then the dj takes over with the best of salsa, bachata, and latin hits while the sky lights up over lake michigan. come solo, bring your crew, or show up ready to meet someone new. no partner needed. no experience necessary. just bring an open mind and shoes you can spin in.

miles and mimosas

miles and mimosas

Sun, Jul 26·10:00 AM CDT

Abraham Lincoln The Man - Monument

2045 N Lincoln Park W, Chicago, IL 60614, USA

a sunday morning that actually feels good. run if you want. walk if you want. show up for the brunch and no one will judge. we're starting with three pace groups so everyone can move at their own speed: fast pace, 2 miles easy pace, 2 miles walk + talk, 1 mile everyone meets at whispers on oakstreet beach at 10:30 for dancing, a dj, drinks, food, and the kind of exciting morning sunday is supposed to be. bring a friend, bring two, bring the one who swore they'd never run.

sunday beach brunch

sunday beach brunch

Sun, Jul 26·11:30 AM CDT

Whispers at Oak Street Beach

1001 N Lake Shore Dr, Chicago, IL 60611, USA

chicago, sundays are for brunch and dancing this is chicago's free, feel-good morning dance party at whispers, right by oak street beach. show up at 11:30am, grab your spot, and let the good music take over. we're going to have a dj making you move with the skyline in front of you and sand and lake michigan right behind you just early enough to feel good about doing something, just late enough to shake your hang over cant wait to catch you out there beach attire encouraged

game night: liar's night

game night: liar's night

Mon, Jul 27·7:00 PM CDT

Duffy's Tavern and Grille

420 W Diversey Pkwy, Chicago, IL 60614, USA

liar's night is back. we're switching up game night. every game on the table will focus on social deduction, deception, bluffing, and reading the room. spend the night trying to catch someone else in a lie, or convincing the group you’re totally innocent (even when you’re definitely not). coming solo? we’ve got you covered. we’ll help match you with a group and walk everyone through the rules so you can jump right in and start playing. whether you’re a master manipulator or a terrible liar, this is a game night where everyone wins.

last call lectures: underwater eavesdropping - how scientists decode whale conversation

last call lectures: underwater eavesdropping - how scientists decode whale conversation

Tue, Jul 28·7:00 PM CDT

The Scout Waterhouse + Kitchen

1419 N Wells St, Chicago, IL 60610, USA

last call lectures presents: underwater eavesdropping: how scientists decode whale conversation somewhere in the deep, whales are talking. clicks, whistles, and songs that travel for miles through the dark. but what are they actually saying? this month, sonny schoenhoft takes us beneath the surface into the strange and beautiful science of listening to whales, and the work of trying to crack a language that evolved a world away from our own. sonny lives in the world where marine biology meets the puzzle of communication. expect the tools scientists use to record and decode whale sound, what we've figured out so far, and the big open question hanging over all of it: how close are we really to understanding another species? expect a 45 minute talk, then small group discussion, then open q&a. come solo, leave with new people and a head full of the ocean.

byob vinyl paint and sip

byob vinyl paint and sip

Wed, Jul 29·7:00 PM CDT

1945 N Elston Ave

1945 N Elston Ave, Chicago, IL 60642, USA

join us on july 29th at the she shed (1945 n elston ave) for chicago's first vinyl record painting class, a one-of-a-kind evening of creativity, connection, and good vibes. in collaboration with SDalai art, this byob workshop is designed for curious minds and social souls looking to meet new people through a brand new experience in the city. no art experience needed; just show up, bring your favorite drink, paint your own vinyl record, and let the creativity flow. this is more than a class; it's a space built around community, fun, and doing something chicago has never seen before! WE PROVIDE THE VINYL, AND YOU GET TO KEEP IT :)

singles, sun, and salsa

singles, sun, and salsa

Thu, Jul 30·6:30 PM CDT

Whispers on Oak Street Beach

Oak Street Beach, 1000 N Lake Shore Dr, Chicago, IL 60611, USA

salsa as the sun goes down, right on the sand at whispers on oak street beach. we start with a beginner friendly lesson, then it's open dancing with music, drinks, and good company. this one is built for meeting someone new. we sell equal men's and women's tickets so the dance floor stays balanced all night. heads up: this event is geared toward straight singles looking to meet the opposite sex. 6:30 to 9pm at whispers on oak street beach. bring comfy shoes and an open mind.

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

Sat, Aug 1·9:00 AM CDT

North Avenue Beach

North Avenue Beach, Illinois 60614, USA

where to find us: https://mcusercontent.com/27ac5737ddd52bab0caaaf9cc/images/0dedf8da-6657-51ab-8131-a32bcf43bd4a.png weather permitting sun, sand, good people, and a grill going. what more do you need? we take over the north courts at north avenue beach every saturday morning for pickup volleyball, food, and a whole lot of fun. show up whenever. courts are marked by skill level so you can jump in wherever feels right. 2s and 4s. rotate in, meet someone new, grab a plate, repeat. best way to make new friends is buy bringing food, drinks, and games to share with people (no pressure though we bring a lot of stuff)

arguing with strangers

arguing with strangers

Tue, Aug 4·7:00 PM CDT

The Scout Waterhouse + Kitchen

1419 N Wells St, Chicago, IL 60610, USA

our sold out arguing with strangers event returns for a rematch, Tuesday, august 4. arguing with strangers is half debate club, half open mic, and 100% real talk. we start things easy. get paired with a stranger, get handed a side, and argue something ridiculous. like is a hot dog a sandwich? defend it with everything you've got and practice disagreeing with a laugh. then the best matchups go up front. the crowd picks a winner on who's more fun to watch, not who's right. once everyone's loose, the topics get real and you argue what you actually believe. the stuff you don't usually say out loud to a stranger. what you'd never compromise on. maybe what you've even changed your mind about. things may get serious, but they stay civil. And at the end of the night, you walk away knowing you can completely disagree with someone and still walk out respecting a new friend. we forgot how to do that. this is practice.

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

Sat, Aug 8·9:00 AM CDT

North Avenue Beach

North Avenue Beach, Illinois 60614, USA

where to find us: https://mcusercontent.com/27ac5737ddd52bab0caaaf9cc/images/0dedf8da-6657-51ab-8131-a32bcf43bd4a.png weather permitting sun, sand, good people, and a grill going. what more do you need? we take over the north courts at north avenue beach every saturday morning for pickup volleyball, food, and a whole lot of fun. show up whenever. courts are marked by skill level so you can jump in wherever feels right. 2s and 4s. rotate in, meet someone new, grab a plate, repeat. best way to make new friends is buy bringing food, drinks, and games to share with people (no pressure though we bring a lot of stuff)

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Aug 11·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

Sat, Aug 15·9:00 AM CDT

North Avenue Beach

North Avenue Beach, Illinois 60614, USA

where to find us: https://mcusercontent.com/27ac5737ddd52bab0caaaf9cc/images/0dedf8da-6657-51ab-8131-a32bcf43bd4a.png weather permitting sun, sand, good people, and a grill going. what more do you need? we take over the north courts at north avenue beach every saturday morning for pickup volleyball, food, and a whole lot of fun. show up whenever. courts are marked by skill level so you can jump in wherever feels right. 2s and 4s. rotate in, meet someone new, grab a plate, repeat. best way to make new friends is buy bringing food, drinks, and games to share with people (no pressure though we bring a lot of stuff)

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Aug 18·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

Sat, Aug 22·9:00 AM CDT

North Avenue Beach

North Avenue Beach, Illinois 60614, USA

where to find us: https://mcusercontent.com/27ac5737ddd52bab0caaaf9cc/images/0dedf8da-6657-51ab-8131-a32bcf43bd4a.png weather permitting sun, sand, good people, and a grill going. what more do you need? we take over the north courts at north avenue beach every saturday morning for pickup volleyball, food, and a whole lot of fun. show up whenever. courts are marked by skill level so you can jump in wherever feels right. 2s and 4s. rotate in, meet someone new, grab a plate, repeat. best way to make new friends is buy bringing food, drinks, and games to share with people (no pressure though we bring a lot of stuff)

last call lectures: from dowries to algorithms: a singles lecture on the evolution of modern love

last call lectures: from dowries to algorithms: a singles lecture on the evolution of modern love

Tue, Aug 25·7:00 PM CDT

The Scout Waterhouse + Kitchen

1419 N Wells St, Chicago, IL 60610, USA

part lecture, part singles mixer, you’re not going to miss this one! historically, romance grew out of a small circle of family-vetted matches and dowries. now, love arrives through a curated bio, a quick swipe, and competing for attention against eleven other matches in your inbox. somewhere between arranged marriages and infinite matches, the rules of connection have fundamentally shifted. as a result, we are operating off instincts built for a world that does not exist anymore. in this lecture, we are digging into how we got here. do soul mates really exist? why does having more dating options make it harder to choose, not easier? and how much of our modern heartbreak comes down to standards nobody can actually meet? leading the night is dr. johanna strokoff, a licensed clinical psychologist who has spent over a decade leading talks on love, relationships, and the psychology behind why we want what we want. here is how the night runs: dr. strokoff opens with a 45 minute lecture, followed by 15 minutes of live q&a. then we break into small, intentionally mixed groups for 45 minutes of guided discussion with fellow singles, closing with a 15 minute debrief to bring it all back together. and stick around after for mingling with your fellow curious (and single 😉) minds!

salsa before sunset

salsa before sunset

Thu, Aug 27·6:30 PM CDT

Castaways Beach Club

1603 N Jean Baptiste Pointe du Sable Lake Shore Dr, Chicago, IL 60611, USA

salsa, the beach, and the best skyline view in the city. 21+ we're taking over castaways on north avenue beach for a night of salsa dancing right as the sun dips behind the city. the night opens with a beginner-friendly lesson, so whether you're a seasoned dancer or you've never moved to a beat in your life, you'll be on the floor in no time. then the dj takes over with the best of salsa, bachata, and latin hits while the sky lights up over lake michigan. come solo, bring your crew, or show up ready to meet someone new. no partner needed. no experience necessary. just bring an open mind and shoes you can spin in.

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

summer saturdays: beach volleyball

Sat, Aug 29·9:00 AM CDT

North Avenue Beach

North Avenue Beach, Illinois 60614, USA

where to find us: https://mcusercontent.com/27ac5737ddd52bab0caaaf9cc/images/0dedf8da-6657-51ab-8131-a32bcf43bd4a.png weather permitting sun, sand, good people, and a grill going. what more do you need? we take over the north courts at north avenue beach every saturday morning for pickup volleyball, food, and a whole lot of fun. show up whenever. courts are marked by skill level so you can jump in wherever feels right. 2s and 4s. rotate in, meet someone new, grab a plate, repeat. best way to make new friends is buy bringing food, drinks, and games to share with people (no pressure though we bring a lot of stuff)

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Sep 1·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Sep 8·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Sep 15·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Sep 22·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

salsa before sunset

salsa before sunset

Thu, Sep 24·6:30 PM CDT

Castaways Beach Club

1603 N Jean Baptiste Pointe du Sable Lake Shore Dr, Chicago, IL 60611, USA

salsa, the beach, and the best skyline view in the city. 21+ we're taking over castaways on north avenue beach for a night of salsa dancing right as the sun dips behind the city. the night opens with a beginner-friendly lesson, so whether you're a seasoned dancer or you've never moved to a beat in your life, you'll be on the floor in no time. then the dj takes over with the best of salsa, bachata, and latin hits while the sky lights up over lake michigan. come solo, bring your crew, or show up ready to meet someone new. no partner needed. no experience necessary. just bring an open mind and shoes you can spin in.

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Sep 29·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

last call lectures

last call lectures

Tue, Oct 6·7:00 PM CDT

Chicago

Chicago, IL, USA

last call lectures is our recurring series where we bring in someone who knows a lot about something interesting (a professor, a researcher, a practitioner, an obsessive) and let them give the talk they've always wanted to give. the kind of lecture you'd actually want to stay awake for. each night follows the same rhythm: arrive, grab a drink, settle in. one expert takes the floor for about 45 minutes on a topic worth your evening. then 4 discussion questions, each being given 15 minutes, with a final q and a with the professor at the end. it's part lecture, part bar night, part "wait, i didn't know i cared about this." you leave smarter than you came, with a few new people in your phone. speaker and location coming soon

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arguing with strangers nyc

arguing with strangers nyc

Tue, Aug 4·7:00 PM EDT

Rodney's Comedy Club

1118 1st Ave, New York, NY 10065, USA

our sold out arguing with strangers event is coming to nyc arguing with strangers is half debate club, half open mic, and 100% getting real. we start things easy. get paired with a stranger, get handed a side, and argue something ridiculous. like is a hot dog a sandwich? defend it with everything you've got and practice disagreeing with a laugh. then the best matchups go up front. the crowd picks a winner on who's more fun to watch, not who's right. once everyone's loose, the topics get real and you argue what you actually believe. the stuff you don't usually say out loud to a stranger. what you'd never compromise on. maybe what you've even changed your mind about. things may get serious, but they stay civil. And at the end of the night, you walk away knowing you can completely disagree with someone and still walk out respecting a new friend. we forgot how to do that. this is practice.

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